Yes, she baffles you with her startling contradictions. Her softness caresses you yet she can wound you with her harsh words. Her love can move mountains, melt stony hearts but god forbid if she loathes you. She takes no pains to hide her feelings. She can scald you with her fieriness.
She is capable of driving you up the wall with her rant. Just let her be, she needs to vent it out. Please listen to her, try to understand her. No sermonising please, she hates it. She doesn’t expect you to solve her problems: no thank you, she is pretty much capable of taking care of it all by herself. Isn’t she the one who heads corporations, governs nations, toils at the construction site- a crusader, a healer, a home maker. She wears many a hat, it can be exhausting, it can get daunting, yet she comes back home to cook for you, to care for you. She is capable of forsaking her dreams, her career for the sake of her love. Yes, she craves for your affection, your respect. Make her laugh, indulge her when she loses her sanity on a shopping trip. She can never have enough shoes or dresses. It makes her feel good, she loves a little pampering. Just pander to her whims once in a while. But don’t you dare take her for granted, trample upon her. She is not a conquest, a trophy for your success. She may look weak to many of you but it is she who is the wind beneath your wings, who shares your dreams and applauds your success.
All these years she has been asking what you want and you still don’t know what she wants?
Took ages to make up my mind, perhaps the last entry for the current BlogAdda, in association with Pring00 contest... http://blog.blogadda.com/2010/06/23/what-women-want-indian-bloggers-share